Dog magic - be open to be changed

How lucky to have met her - not just a dog, but a way a perfect match for what was needed, a magnificent being with a purpose.
She's been gone for 3 1/2 weeks now,  which seems so much longer, and still  the tears come every day. During the last month or so with us, and after about 6 1/2 months, she was starting to come when called - just because.  She would turn around on "this way" and she'd been following me everywhere. Neither driven by food, petting or a desire to please, something else made her tick and something else had started to operate here. She was starting to come just because I said so. She had to be won over, convinced I deserved it. She was turning into a bit of a love-bug too. I was looking forward to the next phase of training. And just then...she had to go to a new family. It's along story. Luckily she really seemed to like kids and will have a kid friend in her new home. The woman seems nice, really wanted her and is also very busy. The training she had here may be the only one she'll get, but she won't have to be an outside dog anymore.

It was a profound experience to get to know her. It was intense, it feels like a lifetime went by in just over 6 months, and it was a transformative, life-changing experience. She catalyzed something in me. A bubble burst.

Curious, getting to know her and falling in love, loving with an open heart, in pure delight watching her move, so much deep joy, wanting to do what was best for her, having to go through what for me were physical extremes, recognizing I had known her before and always will - somewhere along the process, leveling up occurred, resulting in being able to "see" better, people and their motives and limitations, where they are stuck, the state of the world, it's hard to explain. I learned so much in many ways about her, dogs, people, myself and the entire world of dogs, including their plight and suffering.

What advise do I have for future dog owners?
Inform yourself about what it will take for you and other members of your household to take on a dog. Decide what type of dog is right for you and your family. And once you say yes to adopting the animal, stick with it. Then have patience, spend time, much time, observe, get to know this being now living with you. Use Natural Dog Training. Be consistent all the time. Most of all, have, build and feel trust and respect for your dog. Discover what kind of training works best for your new companion. Have patience. Observe, sense, feel the energies involved. Find out the proper cuddle times, get her/him to relax and enjoy your hands on the body. Give guidance, correct instantly - stay calm - surrounding emotional and energetic states will get picked up and acted out by your dog.  Find many ways to socialize him/her. Feed them good food, the healthiest you can offer.Take care of their medical needs.  Find out what works best for them in training. Respect them and their intelligence.
Walk with them, take them places, channel energy or go slow, reassure with the tone of your voice. Allow them to do dog things, allow them to be dog-happy.  No pity or sentimentality. No rewarding unwanted behavior. Open your heart, be amazed, touched, surprised and allow the delight and joy. Get help promptly if needed -  spend more time - and take lots of pictures.
Did I say use Natural Dog Training methods :)

With deep gratitude, and with her essence alive in my inner heart forever - this human self here still misses her.

Have a great life.

For those who say "It's just a dog",  I say - ya, you'd probably say it was just a commitment, it's just a promise, it is just love, it's just a human, it's just the planet - and: you just don't understand.